Archive | February, 2011

Spotlight On: Shelby Knox!

28 Feb shelbyknox

If you’re a feminist, chances are good that you’ve heard of Shelby Knox. She is the subject of the Sundance award-winning film, The Education of Shelby Knox, not to mention an all-around badass, itinerant feminist. She travels across the country speaking, organizing and writing about feminist issues and has become the face – and voice – for young(er) feminism. Shelby is an amazing role model for young women and I am beyond honored that she took the time to talk to sherights.

So, without further ado…..

Q: You catapulted to feminist fame in the film The Education of Shelby Knox. How has your perspective — on life, feminism, etc. — shifted since the film?

Shelby: I was fifteen when the filmmakers started chronicling my high school activism for comprehensive sex education and eighteen when the film premiered at Sundance. I only casually identified as a feminist when the film came out and I never imagined activism would become a career, much less the driving force in my life.

When I first started identifying as a feminist, I thought it was mostly about fighting for what are considered traditional women’s issues: abortion rights, fair pay, more funding for rape survivor and domestic violence programs. Of course it is about all of those things but it’s also about fighting for a world in which men aren’t limited by gender roles, for queer liberation and racial equality and economic justice and human rights and reproductive justice at the same time and with the same intensity.

Q: You’ve recently begun the Radical Women’s History Project – can you tell us about the project and what you hope to achieve with it?

Shelby: I’ve always loved history and as I got older and more feminist, I found myself asking more and more often, “where are the women?” I felt like I was missing a part of myself by not knowing how the women before me lived and worked and fought for social change. As I started to do more research to fill this hole, I realized that the women’s history we do honor is often that of white, Western, straight, cisgender, able-bodied women, which is the same story of privileging only privileged experiences that has propped up patriarchy for centuries. I started the Radical Women’s History Project to find and publicize, on my blog and on Twitter, the experiences of the most marginalized women who are most often left out of this — and all other — narratives. The goal is simple: rewrite ALL women back into history so we can collectively and individually know what is possible for ourselves.

Q: What else does 2011 hold in store for you? Any other exciting projects/speaking tours/etc?

Shelby: The biggest news in my life is that I, for the first time ever, have taken a job with an organization to better forward my goal of making the world more equal for women. As of last week, I am the new Director of Organizing, Women’s Rights, for Change.org. I get to wake up every day and find ways to support activists to use the online petition platform to support on-the-ground organizing campaigns for gender justice.

I will also continue to blog, write for magazines and travel across the country to speak with young organizers. This week, I’m off to Oklahoma University to be their activist-in-residence, doing workshops and seminars with students about campus organizing and beyond. And, of course, I’m doing a lot of Women’s History month speaking, from Indianapolis to Virginia to Nevada.

Q: Who are your top feminist role models?

Shelby: Gloria Steinem is the best organizer I’ve ever met. She’s constantly coming up with ideas for pro-equality projects, organizations, etc., and she connects the people who need to work together to make those ideas a reality. I’m inspired by and grateful to both Shirley Chisholm and Wilma Mankiller, who changed forever the idea of what a leader should look like. Looking back into history, I’m in awe of Ida Wells Barnett and her unyielding courage and devotion to the truth in the face of violence, threats and racism from foes and supposed allies alike.

Q: Do you have any advice for young girls who may be struggling to reconcile their feminist identity with opposing influences in their lives?

Shelby: Being a feminist is about making your life whatever you want it to be and standing up to the forces who are telling you what you want is impossible or undesirable because of your gender, race, sexuality, class, trans status, age, ability and all the intersections thereof. I would encourage you to tell your story – your hopes, dreams, frustrations – to as many people as possible. This is how we find out we’re not alone and we’re not imagining the barriers that keep us from getting what we want and need. This is also how you’ll find your coven, your group of friends with whom you’ll organize, hash out complicated political issues, laugh with when the going gets rough, and celebrate with when you have personal or political victories. There is no prescription for how to be a feminist, no membership office at which we all apply – follow that voice in your head that’s telling you something is unfair and you’ll always be on the right track!

 

For more Shelby, visit her blog, The Ms. Education of Shelby Knox, and follow her on Twitter @ShelbyKnox!

Women Around the Globe: News Roundup

28 Feb world-news

A single mom in Morocco has become the first Arab woman to commit political self-immolation. See The Nation.

Mexican women imprisoned in the highlands of Chiapas struggle over scarce resources in crowded rooms. See Women’s eNews.

Tunisia‘s long tradition of women’s rights goes well beyond anything else in the region. See New York Times.

Mass rapes escalating in Fizi, South Kivu (DRC). See IRIN.

A new program is changing the way the Lesotho government and its development partners deliver aid to help mothers and their families. See IRIN.

Rally For Women’s Health, NYC

26 Feb rally

I’m very honored to have been a part of today’s Rally for Women’s Health in NYC today. THOUSANDS of New Yorkers rallied in Foley Square to show their support for Planned Parenthood, as did many politicians, women’s organizations, celebrities and well-known activists.

There were SO many inspirational speeches and stories shared with the crowd, that it would be impossible to try to capture them all here. However, a few messages rang loud and clear that I’d like to share:

  • In spite of what the extreme right would like us to believe, WE ARE THE MAJORITY. We merely need to organize, make noise and no matter what, DO NOT BACK DOWN.
  • The right to control our fertility  — which has inextricable socioeconomic implications –  is a fundamental human right. It is NOT a privelage. I repeat: it is a RIGHT.
  • We must NOT concede a damn thing. Once a right is compromised away, it is nearly impossible to regain.
  • Those who call themselves conservatives are hypocrites. They want a small government that doesn’t interfere in citizen’s lives, but that’s EXACTLY what they are doing by trying to dictate women’s personal choices.

So let the anti-choice Representatives in Congress and those who support them understand: When you push us, we WILL fight back.

There were also a ton of fabulous signs displayed throughout the rally. Again, too many to fully capture here, but a few of my favorites included:

Keep your Boehner out of my uterus!

Taking back the vote is next

Boehner: Am I telling you what to do with your penis?!?

Defend Title X, Don’t Defund

Anti-Woman is NOT ‘Pro-Life’

 

All in all, the rally was inspirational, heart-warming, motivating and just generally badass. Thanks to everyone who was there!!!!

Oh, and one last thing. Be sure to check out PPNYC’s Tumblr for all things related to today’s rally. Share your stories, pictures, etc.!

I Stand With Planned Parenthood Because…

25 Feb I-Stand-with-Planned-Parenthood

This post is a little bit different from my others; it is part of Fair and Feminist’s Blog Carnival and is dedicated to reasons why I stand with Planned Parenthood. In the face of the GOP’s onslaught against the organization, it’s critically important that we all stand with Planned Parenthood now more than ever.

So, without further ado, I stand with Planned Parenthood because….

  • PP respects my right to choose when I’ll become a mother
  • PP trusts me to make my own decisions about my body
  • Of that life-saving pap-smear they gave me when I had no insurance and no money
  • PP stands up to threats the size of Oklahoma City just to support my right to choose
  • PP doesn’t care if you’re poor, rich, Black, White, Latina, Asian, young, old, gay, straight, able-bodied or not — they’ll provide you with quality healthcare
  • PP serves those traditionally underserved by society with primary healthcare
  • PP provides medically accurate information on all-things sexual and reproductive health — unlike bastard CPCs
  • PP provides a plethora of health services: contraception accounts for 35%; testing for sexually transmitted diseases, 34%; cancer screening and prevention, 17%; abortion only 3%.
  • Even if I was part of that 3%, PP would treat me with respect, dignity and without judgment
  • Without PP, millions of women — and men — would be without proper reproductive and sexual healthcare
  • PP helps prevent hundreds of thousands of unwanted pregnancies every year, helping women live their lives as they otherwise might not be able to

I’m sure there are a million other reasons to stand with Planned Parenthood — so please feel free to add in your reasons in the comment section below!

Reality TV: Brides Can Only Be Happy If Thin

23 Feb about

So I just learned of a new “reality” TV show, Shedding For The Wedding. And even though I’ve yet to see an episode (and doubt that I ever will), I have a real problem with its premise.

It’s pretty much The Biggest Loser meets one of the zillion wedding reality shows clogging TV land. And while I’m all in favor of living a health-focused lifestyle, I am NOT in favor of perpetuating the sick notion that a bride can only enjoy her wedding if she is thin. And not just thin, but mainstream media thin.

As a newlywed myself, I battled with this idea for months leading up to my wedding. I exercised and dieted and obsessed over whether or not I would display unseemly back-fat in my strapless gown. Literally, obsessed. Me, a sane woman with good self-esteem. Imagine the brides who don’t have good self-esteem or a positive support network to reassure her that she’s beautiful?

Why is it that media and reality TV execs think it’s appropriate to push the seemingly omnipresent “thin means happy” message — in general, but in particular on brides, who typically are very stressed out and vulnerable?

And do NOT even get me started on Bridalplasty. That is one big ball of sad/pathetic/ridiculous rolled into 60 minutes.

All of this is such bullshit. Weddings are about celebrating LOVE, not about backfat or weighing 132 pounds. No matter what size you are, you will be a beautiful bride. Dress size should never be the determining factor of  your “dream” wedding.

WaPo Gets It Right

23 Feb washington_post_logo

In her Washington Post article today, “Side Effects of the GOP’s War on Family Planning,” Ruth Marcus hits the nail on the head. Even the first sentence is perfection:

House Republicans voted to increase the number of abortions, raise federal health-care costs and swell the welfare rolls.

Marcus goes on to beautifully articulate what so many activists have been shouting from the rooftops:

If anything, this assessment is understated. The sharper, and still accurate version, would be that Republicans voted to let more women die from breast cancer, cervical cancer and AIDS. How’s that? The family planning programs also provide cancer screening and HIV counseling to millions of low-income and uninsured people.

Let’s be clear about one thing. Almost none of this money went for abortions. The only federal funding for abortion involves the thankfully low number of situations in which poor women seek abortions for pregnancy due to rape or incest, or when their own lives are in jeopardy. In 2006, the last year for which figures are available, the federal government paid for 191 such abortions, according to the Guttmacher Institute.

As she rightly points out, the House is doing its damndest to punish both women and abortion providers for respecting women’s right to chose.

But again — and I will reiterate this until I’m blue in the face — this is not just about abortion. This is about healthcare. Planned Parenthood and other federally-funded Title X clinics provide primary healthcare to millions of women: pap smears, STI treatment, breast cancer screenings, contraception, pre- and post-natal care, etc.

If you want to reduce the number of abortions, how does eliminating women’s access to reproductive health services and contraception advance this goal?

That’s right, it doesn’t. As Marcus points out,

The Guttmacher Institute has estimated that Title X helps prevent nearly 1 million unintended pregnancies annually. The institute says these pregnancies would otherwise result in 433,000 unintended births and 406,000 abortions.

Please take note of the word PREVENT above. Not terminate, not abort, not destroy. PREVENT.

And if prevention isn’t your argument, try economics:

The inevitable result of eliminating Title X funding would not only be more abortions – it would also be higher bills for taxpayers footing Medicaid and welfare costs for poor children. Guttmacher found that every public dollar invested in family planning care saves $3.74 in Medicaid expenditures for pregnant women and their babies during the first year of care. Imagine the lifetime savings.

VERY well done, Washington Post. Hats off to you, Ruth Marcus!

A Glimmer of Hope?

22 Feb President-obama-signing-legislation

I think by now we’re all intimately familiar with the assault on women’s right to choose. In the midst of all this, however, Obama has rescinded Bush’s conscience rules.

According to Ms. Magazine’s Feminist Wire Daily:

On Friday, the Obama administration rescinded the “conscience” rules, first instituted under the Bush administration, that granted protections to medical providers who refused to provide abortions, sterilization, in-vitro fertilization, and other medical procedures, such as care to AIDS patients, due to moral objections.

Under the “conscience” rules, hospitals could refuse to provide emergency contraception to rape victims and pharmacists could refuse to fill prescriptions for birth control pills. In addition, the Bush administration rules stated that hospitals, clinics, and health plans that refused to honor workers’ “right of conscience” could face a loss of federal funding.

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The revised law, which will go into effect in 30 days, will continue to allow doctors and nurses to refuse to provide abortions on religious or moral grounds.

So a small win, but a win nonetheless. Is this indicative of more pro-choice support to come from Obama? Should HR3, HR358 and Pence’s bill make their way through the Senate and land on Obama’s desk, would he veto them?

Of course, I would like to adamantly say YES! But history has shown that women’s rights are among the first to be compromised away for the “larger good” of other issues. Hostile amendments, anyone?

Only time will tell. But that doesn’t mean we should sit around twiddling our thumbs. Pick up the phone, bang out an email or two to your Senators and make sure these bills don’t get as far as Obama.

Links We Love

22 Feb extra-extra-paper

Happy reading from our usual suspects :)

Wisconsin Workers’ Rights are a Feminist Issue, Feministing

Faithful Men Fight the Threat of Ovulating Ladies, Jezebel

Flawed Study Dismissing Job Bias Thrills Media, Women’s eNews

DC Council Proposes Bill to Increase Birth Control Access, Ms. Magazine’s Feminist Wire Daily Newsbriefs

How Breastpumps Became a Political Issue, The Daily Beast

Sickening Shit: “Managed Anorexia” Edition

18 Feb Blue

Thank you Jezebel for bringing this distubring news to light.

Apparently, some gentleman (*sarcasm*) by the name of Kenneth Tong is promoting what he calls the “managed anorexia” lifestyle on Twitter. Sample tweets of his include:

  • The beginning is always today. Managed anorexia is a lifestyle, not a diet.
  • Kenneth Tong: making self-concious girls even more demanding and critical, reminding them it’s not okay to be fat and to be a plus size.
  • Promoting the future, managed anorexia is a lifestyle, skinniness is a dream I want all Girls to live. Size zero is perfection.
  • Hope my size zero & managed anorexia message gets global; thin people too busy being successful whilst the fat hate and just ate.
  • Beyonce & Kardashian are both acquired tastes. Curvy, yes, but for a Heffalump like you to comfort yourself by relating to them is criminal.
  • My Tweets must make fat people suicidal, truthfully, I should be your thinspiration, but we all know plus sizes can’t think straight.
  • All you non size zero girls need to keep a food diary, noting everything you eat & drink – review it daily and see how imperfect you are.

Um, WHAT. Size zero is perfection!? Heffalump?! Thinspiration?! Two words: fuck off.

I’d love to dismiss this jerkoff as quickly as I do dog shit on the sidewalk, but this dude’s got almost 20,500+ Twitter followers. Which means tens of thousands of women may be buying into this nonsense.

So, if you’re on Twitter, drop @MrKennethTong a line and let him know what an ass he is.

Title X Update: House Sucks, Senate Has Hope

18 Feb I-Stand-with-Planned-Parenthood

Today WAS going swell. It’s a beautiful day outside and I got fixings to make chocolate chip cookies. Then I heard: the House passed the Pence bill, officially de-funding Title X.

I realize that it’s very easy to be an arm-chair activist, to let others speak for you. But I — along with millions of other women — beg you to take two minutes to be an activist today.

I recently wrote about Title X and how it helps poor and uninsured women. You can get the skinny here. But the following bears repeating:

THIS IS NOT ABOUT ABORTION. THIS IS ABOUT WOMEN’S HEALTHCARE.

The House is a lost cause, but you can take a hot minute to either email or call your Senators and urge them to block this legislation once it reaches the Senate floor.

Your Senators NEED to hear from you! PLEASE. As someone who relied on Planned Parenthood for healthcare when I moved to NYC and had no money and no insurance, I can testify to the necessity of Title X.

Please believe,  it takes less time to reach out to your Senators than it did to read this post. Look up & contact them here.

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