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Spotlight On: Serena Freewomyn!

18 Jul serena

Serena Freewomyn is one hell of a strong, kick-ass feminist. She is the founder and editor of FeministsForChoice.com and also happens to be one of my favorite people on the planet who inspires me on a daily basis. Read on for a Q&A with Serena!

Q: You are the founder & editor of the popular feminist blog, FeministsForChoice.com. What was your impetus for founding the site, and has it lived up to your expectations?

SF: I started the site in 2009 because I wanted to do something about my feminist/pro-choice beliefs.  My book group had been reading several books about reproductive rights, including Gloria Feldt’s The War on Choice, and Dr. Susan Wicklund’s This Common Secret.  After reading those books, I knew I couldn’t just sit on my ass.  I became a clinic escort and launched a blog in order to become more active.  The website has become a great outlet for me personally – and it has been an awesome way to meet feminist activists from around the world.  I love that our writing team has evolved several times and that I’ve connected with some really amazing feminists as a result.

Q: What does choice mean to you, personally?

SF: Choice is about how you view your body.  Choice is about making healthcare decisions that are in line with your personal beliefs.  This is about much more than abortion and birth control.  For example, I was recently diagnosed with brain cancer.  I told my doctor that I would not pursue chemotherapy or radiation, and that I only wanted to pursue naturopathic treatment.  I am a Wiccan, and this is all part of my belief that the universe created plants and herbs for a reason.  I accept everyone else’s right to choose the healthcare decisions that are best for them, but ultimately my body is my choice.  I choose not to have children.  I choose not to use birth control.  I choose not to have brain surgery.  And I choose to keep defending my right to make these decisions, even (and especially) if it makes my doctors uncomfortable.

Q: Given social media’s ubiquitous nature, do you think online activism has replaced — or will eventually replace — good ol’ fashioned on-the-ground activism?

SF: I think social media supplements older forms of activism, but I do not think it replaces it.  The Walk for Choice is a good example.  Arizona’s walks were only organized through online methods.  As a result, the turnout was very small.  We still need to flyer, we still need to talk to people out in the real world.  Twitter and Facebook are great tools, but they don’t replace the need to actually connect with people in real life.

Q: What is the #1 piece of advice you have for other feminist bloggers?

SF: Don’t give up.  The comments on blogs have dwindled over the last three years – people are chatting on social media instead.  Don’t use the comments section as a measure of your success.  And if you need to write – do it.  Get it off your chest, regardless of the outcome.

Q: Who are your feminist role models?

SF: Alice Paul, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B. Anthony . . . I LOVE the suffragists.  I also owe a big debt of gratitude to my Women’s Studies professors, particularly Mary Rothschild, Karen Leong, and Michelle McGibbney.  They changed my life for the better.

Spotlight On: Jessica Valenti!

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Jessica Valenti, author and founder of Feministing.com, is a major figure in today’s feminist movement who has become a household name, thanks in equal parts to her blogging, books and general badass-ery. She also happens to be one of my role models, so I was floored when she graciously agreed to a Q&A for sherights. Read on for what 2012 holds for Jessica and some wise advice on dealing with “antis” and avoiding feminist burnout. And for more info on Jessica, be sure to visit her website.

Q: 2011 was a big year for you — you transitioned from an editor at Feministing.com to a columnist at The Daily, The Purity Myth Documentary came out, and The Guardian listed you among its Top 100 Inspiring Women. What does 2012 have in store?

JV: Well, thanks! I’ve actually just joined The Nation as a contributing writer and blogger, which I’m thrilled about. I also have a book coming out this fall about parenthood – it’s a look at the disconnect between the ideal and reality of parenting, especially mothering. So it’s set to be an exciting year!

Q: Sadly, it’s not uncommon for feminist bloggers/writers/activists to receive hateful responses from all the “anti’s” (anti-woman, anti-feminist, anti-choice, etc.) out there. How do you personally deal with this?

JV: You know, it’s something I’ve been dealing with for a long time and my strategies have changed over the years. At first I used to try to engage (with the idealistic notion that I could change minds). Then I did a lot of mocking. (See Anti-feminist mailbag on Feministing for some of the funnier ones). Now I just ignore. I’ve found that a lot of the people who are most vociferously opposed to feminism are often just looking for attention. So I think depriving them of oxygen is the best bet these days.

Q: In a similar vein, given the ridiculously anti-woman political climate we’re mired in, how do you maintain your feminist focus without getting completely exhausted and frustrated by it all?

JV: Feminist burnout is actually a really serious issue – folks who do social justice work aren’t just exhausted physically. It’s emotional work  as well. I’m a big believer in conserving your activist energy and using it strategically. I don’t talk to brick walls, I maintain a close like-minded community that I can go to for support, and I consider self-care part of my work as an activist. After all, how can you effectively do the work if you’re completely wiped out?

Q: Who are your top feminist role models?

JV: My cohorts at Feministing. My best role models have been the people I’ve had the honor of working with – they teach me new things constantly, inspire me to do more, be better, and think critically.

Q: If you could give one piece of advice to young feminist bloggers and aspiring authors, what would it be?

JV: That’s a hard one! And the advice would probably depend on what their goals are…. But my most blanket advice would be to find a mentor, if at all possible. I think there’s not nearly enough feminist mentorship happening – especially in feminist writing and blogging circles, and it’s such a necessary thing! So seek people out.

Simple Steps Towards Empowerment

10 Apr FistOfPower

Last night over dinner with a good friend, I had a very telling conversation about today’s war on women and activism. From attacks on birth control to Congress’ reluctance to renew the Violence Against Women Act, there was a lot to talk about. My friend, who is an extremely intelligent woman and is aware of and vested in women’s rights issues, surprised me when she expressed a feeling of helplessness. She asked me, point-blank, “but what can I do about it all?”

It hit me that if she feels this way, many many many more women must likewise feel powerless. And this overwhelming sense of powerlessness is very easy to give in to, to truly believe that as one individual, you cannot affect change. To that, I say…wrong! There are very simple steps you can take to become active on an issue and help alter the course of politics/history/what-have-you. Mind you, I am not writing this  from a professional activist/organizer point of view, but rather as your run of the mill feminist. So if I can take these steps and feel empowered, anyone can!

Be targeted. There are, sadly, a million women’s rights issues that really ruffle my feathers. But it’s extremely difficult, not to mention overwhelming, to try and take on everything. Pick an issue (or two or three) and really dedicate yourself to it; doing so makes activism much more palatable.

Get informed and get engaged. It’s one thing to be pissed off, but it’s another thing entirely to be pissed off and armed with information. Knowledge is power. Read the news, relevant blogs and reports on the issue(s) you’re interested in. Engage in online commentary and talk about the issue(s) with your friends, colleagues and family. The more you read and talk about it, the more confident you’ll be in your ability to take action.

Don’t just talk the talk. Tweet it, Facebook it, blog it, YouTube it. You have a voice and valid opinions so don’t be afraid to blast them beyond your immediate inner circle! We live in an era in which social media reigns and if the Arab Spring taught us anything, it’s that these tools are our friends.

Walk the walk. Literally. March in protests and participate in rallies. This may sound like an outdated form of activism, but trust me, it’s not. It’s extremely empowering to be part of a crowd demanding justice and accountability for something you believe in. You can also let your fingers do some walking, so to speak. Successful activism has both verbal and visual components, including the written word. Don’t like the way your local paper is covering an issue? Write a letter to the editor. Hate that sexist billboard in your neighborhood? Email the company whose ad is offensive. Think that rapist should get the maximum sentence? Write the judge and tell him/her why.

Get involved with grassroots organizations. Find the local chapter of a women’s rights organization (like NOW, Planned Parenthood, etc.) and get involved! Not only is this a wonderful way to network with other like-minded feminists, but it will also provide you with ample opportunities to take concrete action in your community. This is particularly helpful for those of us who need some direction and guidance. If you’re not keen on physically going to meetings, sign up for action alerts!

Don’t get complacent. This one bears repeating: do NOT get complacent. You can’t depend on others to be your voice or your vote.

If you have other tips, please feel free to post them in the comments section!

Links We Love

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Are There Alternatives to the Failing National Reproductive Rights Organizing Model?, Feministing.com

DOMA Hearing Held in US House, Feminist Wire Daily Newsbriefs

The Last Allowable Taboo, Huffington Post

Anti-Sex Trade Turns to Focus on Men Who Buy Sex, Women’s eNews

GOP’s Attack on Child Labor Threatens our Daughters, Women’s eNews

Now Women Are Suffering from Changing Room Rage, Jezebel

Spotlight On: Shelby Knox!

28 Feb shelbyknox

If you’re a feminist, chances are good that you’ve heard of Shelby Knox. She is the subject of the Sundance award-winning film, The Education of Shelby Knox, not to mention an all-around badass, itinerant feminist. She travels across the country speaking, organizing and writing about feminist issues and has become the face – and voice – for young(er) feminism. Shelby is an amazing role model for young women and I am beyond honored that she took the time to talk to sherights.

So, without further ado…..

Q: You catapulted to feminist fame in the film The Education of Shelby Knox. How has your perspective — on life, feminism, etc. — shifted since the film?

Shelby: I was fifteen when the filmmakers started chronicling my high school activism for comprehensive sex education and eighteen when the film premiered at Sundance. I only casually identified as a feminist when the film came out and I never imagined activism would become a career, much less the driving force in my life.

When I first started identifying as a feminist, I thought it was mostly about fighting for what are considered traditional women’s issues: abortion rights, fair pay, more funding for rape survivor and domestic violence programs. Of course it is about all of those things but it’s also about fighting for a world in which men aren’t limited by gender roles, for queer liberation and racial equality and economic justice and human rights and reproductive justice at the same time and with the same intensity.

Q: You’ve recently begun the Radical Women’s History Project – can you tell us about the project and what you hope to achieve with it?

Shelby: I’ve always loved history and as I got older and more feminist, I found myself asking more and more often, “where are the women?” I felt like I was missing a part of myself by not knowing how the women before me lived and worked and fought for social change. As I started to do more research to fill this hole, I realized that the women’s history we do honor is often that of white, Western, straight, cisgender, able-bodied women, which is the same story of privileging only privileged experiences that has propped up patriarchy for centuries. I started the Radical Women’s History Project to find and publicize, on my blog and on Twitter, the experiences of the most marginalized women who are most often left out of this — and all other — narratives. The goal is simple: rewrite ALL women back into history so we can collectively and individually know what is possible for ourselves.

Q: What else does 2011 hold in store for you? Any other exciting projects/speaking tours/etc?

Shelby: The biggest news in my life is that I, for the first time ever, have taken a job with an organization to better forward my goal of making the world more equal for women. As of last week, I am the new Director of Organizing, Women’s Rights, for Change.org. I get to wake up every day and find ways to support activists to use the online petition platform to support on-the-ground organizing campaigns for gender justice.

I will also continue to blog, write for magazines and travel across the country to speak with young organizers. This week, I’m off to Oklahoma University to be their activist-in-residence, doing workshops and seminars with students about campus organizing and beyond. And, of course, I’m doing a lot of Women’s History month speaking, from Indianapolis to Virginia to Nevada.

Q: Who are your top feminist role models?

Shelby: Gloria Steinem is the best organizer I’ve ever met. She’s constantly coming up with ideas for pro-equality projects, organizations, etc., and she connects the people who need to work together to make those ideas a reality. I’m inspired by and grateful to both Shirley Chisholm and Wilma Mankiller, who changed forever the idea of what a leader should look like. Looking back into history, I’m in awe of Ida Wells Barnett and her unyielding courage and devotion to the truth in the face of violence, threats and racism from foes and supposed allies alike.

Q: Do you have any advice for young girls who may be struggling to reconcile their feminist identity with opposing influences in their lives?

Shelby: Being a feminist is about making your life whatever you want it to be and standing up to the forces who are telling you what you want is impossible or undesirable because of your gender, race, sexuality, class, trans status, age, ability and all the intersections thereof. I would encourage you to tell your story – your hopes, dreams, frustrations – to as many people as possible. This is how we find out we’re not alone and we’re not imagining the barriers that keep us from getting what we want and need. This is also how you’ll find your coven, your group of friends with whom you’ll organize, hash out complicated political issues, laugh with when the going gets rough, and celebrate with when you have personal or political victories. There is no prescription for how to be a feminist, no membership office at which we all apply – follow that voice in your head that’s telling you something is unfair and you’ll always be on the right track!

 

For more Shelby, visit her blog, The Ms. Education of Shelby Knox, and follow her on Twitter @ShelbyKnox!

Links We Love

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Happy reading from our usual suspects :)

Wisconsin Workers’ Rights are a Feminist Issue, Feministing

Faithful Men Fight the Threat of Ovulating Ladies, Jezebel

Flawed Study Dismissing Job Bias Thrills Media, Women’s eNews

DC Council Proposes Bill to Increase Birth Control Access, Ms. Magazine’s Feminist Wire Daily Newsbriefs

How Breastpumps Became a Political Issue, The Daily Beast

BREAKING: GOP Drops “Forcible” Rape, HR3 Still Blows

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It’s a small victory in an uphill battle. The GOP has, under pressure from feminist outcry and activism — like the #DearJohn campaign – agreed to drop the “forcible” rape language in the No Taxpayer Funding for Abortion bill (HR3).

The aide to Chris Smith, the dickbag Representative who introduced this bill, said:

“The word forcible will be replaced with the original language from the Hyde Amendment,” Jeff Sagnip, spokesman for bill sponsor Chris Smith (R-N.J.), said. One senior GOP aide told Huddle it’s a no-brainer to get rid of the modifier. “Such a removal would be a good idea, since last I checked, rape by definition is non-consensual,” the aide said.

Don’t you love how quickly he backpedals?!

There’s no doubt about it: this is a victory for all the feminists who stood their ground and made sure their voices were heard. BUT, this bill STILL BLOWS. It not only keeps legal abortion out of reach for poor women, but it also penalizes those with private insurance under the new health exchange.

The National Women’s Law Center explains:

H.R. 3 purports to be a ban on federal funding for abortion.  This ban is punitive and terrible, to be sure, but H.R. 3 goes much, much further than that.  The bill would also impose tax penalties on individuals and small businesses with insurance plans that include abortion.  That’s right.  Tax penalties.  As in, people with insurance plans that cover abortion would have to pay higher taxes than people whose health plans don’t.  Yep – you heard it right.  If your insurance plan covers abortion – even if you never knew it, and even if you never used it – you could face a tax penalty.  Depending on what kinds of tax benefits you’re eligible for, it could be substantial.

So what would this mean for a real family?  Take a father of three working as an assembly lineman who loses his job when his manufacturing plant closes.  Right now, he’s eligible for the Health Coverage Tax Credit to help with the costs of his $13,770 premium.  But, because his insurance plan included coverage of abortion—even though he never knew about this benefit and no one in his family ever used it—H.R. 3 would suddenly make him ineligible for the benefit and would cost him $11,236.

Other tax benefits are on the line, too.  Right now, a woman who makes $25,000 is eligible to deduct any amount over $1,875 she spends on health expenses, including her insurance premiums, from her taxable income.  If H.R. 3 were enacted and her health insurance plan includes coverage of abortion, she would lose a $1,731 deduction.  More than 7.5 million families claim this particular medical expense deductions—and each of them would lose the deduction if their plan covers abortion.

So, please keep on your Representatives to reject this bill! Speaker John Boehner has promised to make this bill the highest priority, so your voice needs to be heard!

You can look up your Rep and contact him/her here. Go, do it! Now!

sherights’ shereads: Take 2!

31 Jan Home_Photo_books

I’ve gotten a lot of feedback on the sherights’ shereads post, including many great suggestions. Thanks to everyone who has contributed their thoughts! Below you’ll find additions to the first shereads list, including a children’s book (this is awesome — if anyone has more children’s book suggestions, please comment)!

Happy reading :)

BOOKS (FICTION)

The Wrestling Princess and Other Stories, by Judy Corbalis (**children’s book)

 

BOOKS (NON-FICTION)

Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women, by Susan Faludi

Ain’t I A Woman?: Black Women and Feminism, by Bell Hooks (anything by Bell Hooks, really)

Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate Politics, also by Bell Hooks

Century of Struggle: The Woman’s Rights Movement in the United States, by Eleanor Flexner

The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used Against Women, by Naomi Wolf

Manifesta: Young Women, Feminism and the Future, by Jennifer Baumgardner and Amy Richards

Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity, by Julia Serano

Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions, by Gloria Steinem

 

PS – A special thanks to The Undomestic Goddess, whose 52 Books Project was a goldmine of suggestions!

Does Feminist = Radical?

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As it just so happens, I come from fairly conservative stock. I am a lonely liberal sheep among my family, and I am perfectly content that way. I am used to hearing anti-Obama, anti-health care reform and anti-choice rhetoric. But what I still, to this day, can not get used to is the claim that my views make me a “radical.”

This one always stumps me, without fail. What is it about wanting fair pay, equal opportunities and control over my body that is so radical? Why is being outspoken and using my brain to question the status quo considered cringe-worthy? If I had a penis, I’d be rational, not radical.

Since I really can’t come up with a logical explanation for this, I just continue on my merry feminist way, agreeing to disagree. And while it gets frustrating and isn’t always easy to constantly defend my points of view, I’m happy to do so. It helps that I have an amazing, supportive network of like-minded progressives at hand. (And parents who, while they may disagree with my views, still support me).

But what about those who don’t?

If you fall into the category of I’m-a-feminist-but-am-drowning-in-a-sea-of-conservatives, remember to have faith in your beliefs! Even if you stand alone with your views, embrace them, love them. And if you are seeking your own network of like-minded folk, reach out to and become involved with your local chapter of a women’s organization. Here are a few to checkout:

National Organization for Women

Feminist Majority Foundation

Younger Women’s Task Force

Equality Now

Center for Reproductive Rights

Choice USA

NARAL

Feminist Campus

The National Council on Women’s Organizations also has an extensive list of their members, which may also prove helpful.

sherights’ shereads

25 Jan Home_Photo_books

As a voracious reader, I’m always in the market for a good book, especially ones that touch on women’s issues. I’ve taken the liberty of compiling a preliminary — and by no means comprehensive! — list of books/websites/magazines that are essential for any feminist.

Of course, please help me build this list by leaving comments on missing items!

BOOKS (NONFICTION)

The War on Choice, by Gloria Feldt

Abortion & The Politics of Motherhood, by Kristin Luker

The Feminine Mystique, by Betty Friedan

How the Pro-Choice Movement Saved America, by Cristina Page

Cunt: A Declaration of Independence, by Inga Muscio

Half the Sky, by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn

The Vagina Monologues, by Eve Ensler

Mothers & Motherhood: Readings in American History, by Rima D. Apple  and Janet Golden (eds)

The Women & War Reader, by Lois Ann Lorentzen adn Jennifer Turpin (eds)

Against Our Will, by Susan Brownmiller

The Female Circumcision Controversy, by Ellen Gruenbaum

Human Rights & Gender Violence, by Sally Engle Merry

The Woman’s Bible, by Eizabeth Cady Stanton

Women’s Rights: A Human Rights Quarterly Reader, by Bert B. Lockwood (ed)

Full Frontal Feminism; The Purity Myth; Yes Means Yes; He’s a Stud, She’s a Slut, all by Jessica Valenti

The Color of Water, by James McBride

In Search of our Mothers’ Gardens: Womanist Prose, by Alice Walker

Women, Race and Class, by Angela Davis

BOOKS (FICTION)

A Thousand Splendid Suns, by Khaled Hosseini

The Yellow Wallpaper, by Charlotte Perkins Gilman

The Handmaid’s Tale, by Margaret Atwood

Push, by Sapphire

The Awakening, by Kate Chopin

The Color Purple, by Alice Walker

The Red Tent, by Anita Diamant

Beloved, by Toni Morrison (or anything by Toni Morrison, for that matter)

The Bell Jar,  by Sylvia Plath

Women of Brewster Place, by  Gloria Naylor

For Colored Girls Who Have Considered Suicide When the Rainbow Is Enuf,  by Ntozake Shange

MAGAZINES/NEWS SITES

Ms. Magazine

Bust

Bitch

Women’s eNews

Jezebel

AlterNet

Feminist Press

The F-Bomb

BLOGS

Feministing

The Ms. Education of Shelby Knox

Feministe

Abortioneers

The Undomestic Goddess

Racialicious

Abortion Gang

Bitch PhD

RH Reality Check

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